A considerable amount of things has been happening for a lot of us. New opportunities, jobs, babies, engagements, break-ups/make-ups, finally sticking to that workout plan, studies, weddings & all that good stuff!
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But something dawned on me...... we get so caught up on what we “want” so much that we don’t realise that “want” might or most likely doesn’t “want” us back.
That job, that mentorship opportunity, that guy or girl doesn’t share the same wants as we do.
And sometimes it’s uncomfortable because rejection hits hard, especially the kind with no answers. I know it’s hard to not be pissed at some ish you reaaally wanted & the feeling of rejection is one big ass pill to swallow.
But hey, look at it this way, there’s a sprinkle of clarity when you deep wah gwarn.
That clarity is, that ish wasn’t for you to begin with, and no matter how much you wanted it, wasn’t going to somehow change.
There is a job with your very name on it, a mentor seeking a mentee just like you, a career opportunity making its way to your inbox, that business grant that would give your brand a push, that dream collaboration (trust me your name is in rooms.)
That guy waiting to love on you, kiss you up and give shoulder massages that end up becoming booty massages #netflix&chill, a new friendship circle (we can help with that!) or that podcast interview you have been manifesting. If it wants you, it will all find its way to you.
My point is, in this life, you can’t beat yourself up over things you simply can’t control.
Take the time to praise The Creator for the blessings you already have, move like you know it's already happened and it's already yours.
(I would have said move as you believe but in belief there is doubt. You believe in things you don't know, whereas "when you know, you know.")
Recently, I’ve been on some highly blessed & favoured vibes, nothing major has happened if you’re wondering.
I just have so much gratitude. It's unreal!
I’ve been waking up & going to sleep smiling, happy & ting for no reason at all?!
Even when things I want don’t necessarily want me back, I still for some reason have this huge sense of immense gratitude, almost like I know something bombastic is on its way to me. I've been in my thank you, more please/ happy, healthy & wealthy mood. If you're looking for a sign, this may have been it.
You’re all good, Suga. The Creator, Universe & Ancestors got you!
I'll leave you with this quote from an interview on the breakfast club.
“If you see someone blessed, then you should get excited because it means it’s in your reflection.”
-Queen Afua
Now go forth and be great, Queen!
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